Make It Personal: From Heart To Heart Wedding Vows

Wedding vows are the heart of the wedding ceremony. They are the promises you make to each other, declaring your love and commitment. Traditional vows may hold a special place for some couples, writing your own vows allows you to express your unique love story and commitment in a way that is authentic for you.

If you are feeling inspired to write your own vows here are a few guidelines to help you write vows that are heartfelt, love-filled and meaningful.

Start with Reflection: Before putting pen to paper, take some time and reflect on your relationship. Reflect on your love journey, the moments that brought you together, what you admire about your partner, the challenges you have overcome, how your partner has changed your life, and your hopes and dreams for the future. Vows from the heart require some vulnerability, so be open to expressing your emotions openly and always speak from the heart.

Set The Tone: How do you envision them? Romantic, humorous, sentimental or a mixture of all three? Incorporate humor in moderation, a lighthearted touch between the two of you can make your vows more enjoyable and personal. Using symbolic language adds depth to your vows, comparing your love to the stars, nature or using words from poetry or love songs.

Wedding vows are a declaration of your promises to each other so write promises that are unique to your relationship. Think about the qualities that make your partner special, avoid generic statements and cliches. 

The Promises You Make: Make promises that hold a deep meaning for both of you, be specific and personal. Whether it’s taking a vacation together every year or always supporting each other’s growth and dreams, personalizing your promises make your vows meaningful. When you speak from your heart it reaches and resonates with your partner and everyone who is listening. The length of your vows should be 1-2 minutes anything longer should be done in private.

Practice and Revise: Once you’ve written your vows, read them out loud to make sure they flow smoothly, take time to edit and refine them. You want your partner and guest to fully understand what you are saying and your emotions behind your words. Practicing helps you feel more comfortable and confident when the time comes during the ceremony. When you’ve practice saying your vows aloud, you’re more likely to speak with clarity. You. May want to find a friend to rehearse with to offer feedback and help you refine your words.

On Your Wedding Day: Have your vows printed or handwritten, it is not advisable to stand before your partner and just speak whatever comes to mind. Having vows written keeps you on track and helps you say what is really meaningful. Take some deep breathes before you speak to calm your nerves and it’s ok to get emotional. After all it’s your wedding day.

Writing your vows is a deeply personal experience. Your vows are a testimony of your unique bond and commitment you are making to each other. Embrace the process and speak from the heart. Your vows are a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to express your love and commitment for each other in this space. Words matter and the words you speak on your wedding day matter, so take this opportunity to craft and speak words of life, love and prosperity. With help in creating vows that are heartfelt contact Living Ceremonies, Nashville wedding officiant, we make your wedding memorable, meaningful and marvelous.